When It’s Time to Choose Your Doctor

Finding the doctor that is right for you is complicated. With HIV, there are many things to consider, and each journey is different. I have listed some questions and concerns that are important when looking for and deciding on a doctor.

Some Questions to Ask
How many patients with HIV have you treated? How many do you currently see?

Are you a conservative doctor (do you prefer “tried and true” methods to treating HIV/AIDS?

Are you willing to try new or experimental treatments (will I be asked to participate in trials for research)?

Are you comfortable with my lifestyle (talk about things that may get in the way of communication)?

Are you part of a system of overall support for people living with HIV/AIDS?

Some Thoughts About Relationship
Some people want to take an active role in planning their healthcare. They read on their own, and bring information to their doctors. Other people want the doctor to make the decisions in their healthcare. Make sure you know what type of relationship would best suit you.

Some Thoughts About Communication
Once you decide on a doctor, be sure to share how you feel about taking medication, and about having HIV or AIDS. Expect your doctor to take the time to listen to what you have to say. Tell your doctor about other drugs (legal or not) you are using. Be open and honest about your lifestyle. How you eat, sleep, have sex, and work make a difference in your care. If you feel you cannot talk about something that is important, this may be a sign that you should look for a more compatible doctor.

How to Engage Your Family
When you are ready to talk with the people who are important in your life, Your Neighbor Has AIDS will help find ways to begin the conversation. Copies are available at amazon.com, Borders Books, Brush Arbor Press, and other selected book stores.


For more information about HIV/AIDS contact these resources:
Brush Arbor Press/Consultants www.brusharborpress.com, Centers for Disease Control www.cdc.gov/hiv, National HIV and STD Testing Resources www.hivtest.org, The Ruth Rothstein CORE Center, www.corecenter.org

© 2008 Deborah E. Lake. All rights reserved.